Millennial TikTokker declares this the most boring generation - and who it is may surprise you TikTok food critic Keith Lee abruptly cuts short California Bay Area tour, says it’s not for ‘tourists right now’ TikTok star dead at 67 from cancer: ‘She had the time of her life’ And beyond that, we’ll devote a whole chapter to solo submission and centering your submissive identity on your relationship with yourself, rather than waiting for a Dom to come along and unlock it for you.Purina denies TikTok ‘rumors’ that its pet food causes illness, death Here, we’ll take about best practices in vetting, negotiating, and actually submitting in a scene. To create a submissive-focused space to allow you to grow into your highest potential. Because the journey to becoming a Better Bottom takes a lot of soft skills that can be hard to learn from a standard workshop. This guide was inspired by the questions I’m asked every day by thousands of subs around the world, many of whom have been practicing for years. But what if I’m not a total newbie?Įven if you’ve been out there and seen the BDSM world for yourself, you may have been cobbling your submission practice together from Dom-centric sources. This is day one of making all of your dirty dreams come true. These lessons will help keep you safe, informed, and fulfilled, ensuring you know what you want and how to get it. I constructed this course to include everything I wish I had known when I began my kink journey. I’m here to be your fairy submother, cheerleader, and experienced guide through your first steps to submissive self-actualization. So come copy my notes from years of lifestyle submission, and start crafting your own submissive story. Because a good sub is not a mute, obedient blank canvas.Īn empowered sub knows how to listen to their inner voice, how to make that voice heard, and can get off along the way. We live in a society that devalues vulnerability, and misunderstands consensual power exchange as weakness.īut I’m here to tell you that embracing your desires is about to make you feel more powerful than you’ve ever felt. And give you a library of tools and ideas I wish I’d had at the outset of my own submission journey. I’m here to help you become the you-est you. I’m not trying to craft you into a “perfect sub.” And we leave behind tired assumptions about who a sub is or isn’t. On top of the threatening complexity, sub desire is often misrepresented in those stereotypes. At best you don’t know where to begin and at worst you’re running for the hills. Perhaps the resources you can find are shrouded in a Dom-centric cloud of confusion and tired BDSM stereotypes. Suddenly you find yourself wishing Webster’s had a BDSM section or that you could buy “Getting Dominated for Dummies” at your local bookstore. In this landscape of new possibilities, I’ve experienced firsthand how quickly dazzling can become dizzying. Well, don’t worry teacher’s pets, I’m here to help you fill that blank page with color-coded notes and very inappropriate doodles. Especially when you’re trying to navigate the BDSM world, shrouded in mystery and full of obscure terminology as it is. So when we arrive to kink, we’re opening a blank page on our sexualities. If you, like me, took sex ed in a high school gym, they probably didn’t cover how to cut out the bullshit on dating apps, how to negotiate a BDSM scene, or how to become an empowered sub. If we receive any sex education at all it is often heteronormative and rooted in shame. The traditional pathways our sex-negative culture offers for seeking out pleasure can feel narrow and stifling. Oh yeah and have that filthy taboo hot sex you’ve been dreaming about. So let’s build that inner well of power together.Īnd along the way you’ll discover authentic connection, build confidence, and heal your ability to advocate for your boundaries in and out of the bedroom. No matter what your kinks and fantasies may be, the safety structures of BDSM hold space for everyone to become whole with their sexuality, their intuition, and their power.īecause healthy submission blossoms from the truth that you cannot give away power you don’t have. Our mission? Cracking the code on what you want, staying safe on the search for it, and discovering yourself in the story of your own wildest fantasies.ĭiving into your kinks is a brave and empowering decision that will enrich your life with so much more than the euphoria of an over-the-knee spanking or the joy of hearing the specific dirty talk you’ve always craved. And I’m blowing the dust off the leather-bound annals of kink to bring you exactly what you need to know.
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